I went on a date last month with a guy that I am pretty sure is the only hottie in the small town in which I currently find myself. He was a sexy brown skinned mix of Cubano and Brasileiro parentage, raised in France with a slight Brummie twang. He had bright green eyes, captivating and cheeky, and a smile to match.
We're both new to the area. So we picked a pretty central place to meet, outside a local bar.
So far pretty standard stuff right?
We were both late, which is a pretty sad way of determining a potential soul mate, but whatever works. When I walked up to the bar to meet him, he hugged me, then proceeded to circle me, the aforementioned green eyes raking me from locs to toes, with noticeable pauses in various areas of my anatomy, letting out a long and extended;
I felt a little bit violated.
Gentlemen this is not a good look.
Objectification at its finest!