I learnt to dance in Cuba. That's the first thing. After 5 weeks of daily lessons 1-on-1 with my cuban teacher (yum!) I was pretty damn good on my feet.
To begin with, my teacher despaired of me because I couldn't be led, I wanted to dance my way and turn my way and screw whatever his body was saying. It was completely unconscious, but I am naturally stubborn and do tend to think that it is 'my way or the A1'. Nowadays I can be led, but only by a strong lead. If your arms are flimsy and weak then don't even bother, I will just dance by myself next to you and save you the trouble. I think that could work out as a strong relationship metaphor (I'll submit to you if I think you are worthy type of thing) but that's another day.
So Wednesday night me, the PhD and the Latina went to bar Salsa! (their exclamation not mine) and oh my word, I didn't realise how much I had missed it. The PhD lacks confidence, a couple years ago we went regularly for a few months but we lapsed so today her and her cousin did the beginners class. Me and the latina did the Improvers class and the rust began to show. The class was a fiasco, I was that hopeless one that no1 wants to dance with.
We had drinks during the second dance classes, treated by a gorgeous short dreadlocked Kenyan guy called Oscar. He dressed sharp! However after the latina told him that she was married and that I was some salsa hussy he swiftly disappeared.
(I'm not a salsa hussy btw, but it is not the first time that I have heard it, I just dance with pretty much anyone and make friends quickly. I feel like in that environment, where its very much geared to guys asking girls to dance - girls need to not be so picky. Its a dance not marriage!)
So dancewise I wasn't feeling the love on Wednesday (boooo) BUT I did accept a hand from a guy the PhD was refusing hard. Not pretty at all, BUT MY GOD, the man could dance! I was getting twirled all over the floor, my skirt was flying high (thank God for tights) and I was keeping up with him! That dance was worth the whole night, I absolutely felt like I was flying!
More salsa in my life! Check!
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